funny responses to what are you doing this weekend
I think the idea is that someone who thinks no is hard will get the direct request and start cancelling plans, because no one would actually directly ask for babysitting unless this was the most important event of their lives. Eventually I got consistent work as a freelancer, something I could do from home even when I was in pain or needed oxygen etc. That way your daughter can organize her time (which is an important adult skill) and gets some input on what is a chore and how important it is (which allows her to build other adult skills) and she wont get interrupted that much (which to you doesnt feel that way but her story looks probably very different). Her Kid: *rings doorbell* again my mum says shall we wait for you? Sometimes this takes several rounds before everyone realizes theyve done their line but missed their cue. I do want to clarifyI miswrote: if my daughter says she needs to take some mental health time and thats why she cant spend an hour helping me w/ a family project, thats not fallout worthshes busy. (Like just because I have no plans, I must do the Thing she wants to do. So I got in the habit of saying, I have no plans and thats just the way I like it. I have only one person who does this, my widowed FIL, and it irritates me no end. The same is true for both indirect hinty inquiries like doing anything on the weekend? and direct invites like Are you available for X chore/ Y funthing Saturday between 2 and 5? Or noncommittal responses like dunno, maybe or definite responses like I will make time for a few specific fun things within specific timeframe, otherwise I am unavailable. None of these is universally rude; any/all can be considered presumptuous, pushy, passive, or otherwise inappropriate to specific circumstances or relationships (and fine/desirable for others), and any/all may result in added difficulty/danger if they are spoken to a person who has the ability to cause problems if displeased, and are not what that person wants to hear. Right now? If ever there was a moment for the standard Wow script, this surely would be it. This comment has clarified a thing for me. It almost feels like if they just sneak up on me with some super fun plans I might say yes more often. Because everybodys got something. In conclusion the rules arent really all that different. My Kid: No (shuts door)
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