difference between holding a grudge and not forgetting

Hes not a nice guy and I allowed him to treat me like shit and get away with it.Infact, Im not even polite when I see him now I respond with a Hey because thats all he gives me and I am getting over thinking I am being a bitch for acting this way. Ever since then I never got involved with anyone who lived too close to me. You will not get it. Courtney,If I read CC right, big bang nerdy guy is not the bad guy here. Seriously! Good luck. . "The feeling that causes you to want to back out is likely a resentment lurking beneath the surface. To hold a grudge is to disobey God's second greatest commandment to love our neighbor. pull the focus back on you.) If he could correct his situation he would and I know he feels worse about it than I do. Sometimes, forgiveness might even lead to feelings of understanding, empathy and compassion for the one who hurt you. Getting It!Sorry for all typos in above post & this one, doing this by phone. My kid(s) see right through you. I finally get it now. It is not acceptable that people can grow and learn from mistakes. Merci. Thanks for reminding us of that . I just cant and wont do things from a place of anxiety because it wreaks havoc on my nervous system. If you can find the strength, run, dont walk. He does not mean you well. Be grateful he is gone and you dodged a bullet. Its unfair. Ex: (Your ex-girlfriend keys your car) I will get vengeance for this and key her car. Yes, I have served our homeless community and havent always liked it but did it anyway, didnt think of comparing it to forgiveness but you are absolutely right. These feelings fester in a vacuum, squeeze them out by filling your time and attention with other things. Needless to say, I did not return her call and havent spoken to her since. You can draw a boundary without being bitter. But there are strategies you can try to help you move past your anger and hurt feelings. What a douche! Hey, hes acting that way, why do I think its OK for him and its not OK for me??? What I meant was that, no matter whether the person is repentant (and thus deserving forgiveness) or non-repentant (willfully sinning without remorse or change of action, in which case they are constituting themselves an enemy of God and we would be enabling them and condoning their behavior as well as siding with them against God by forgiving them), we have the responsibility for OUR side of the street, which is that we never pay back evil for evil towards them by our own thoughts, words, or actions.

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